Dear Bunmi, I am in love with a man who is separated from his wife. He has two children and they live with her in the house her new husband provided for her. He said he was bitter that all the years they were married, she was cheating on him and he finds it difficult to […]

Dear Bunmi, I’m a 28-year-old man and have not had any sexual experiences at all. I’m a graduate and have a good social life with great friends, both male and female. But finding a girlfriend seems impossible. Going over to women I don’t know and trying to chat them up seems both scary and embarrassing. What […]

Dear Bunmi, I NEED help and I need it badly! Four years ago, I met and fell in love with my brother’s friend who was then a medical student. I was a nurse at the teaching hospital where he was based. He was the greatest lover I ever had and I was, and still am, in […]

Dear Bunmi, My girlfriend and I have very healthy love-making appetite – and she really gives me pleasure.  But I’m greedy and believe I could get more out of her. I’m a good cook and have been wondering lately if aphrodisiacs really work. If they do, what can I cook for her to whet her appetite […]

By Bunmi Sofola Do you think it’s irresponsible to let children run around naked in public?  And at what age should they stop doing so?  Decades back, long before the emergence of paedophiles and serial rapists,  nobody bat an eyelash whenever any kid ran around the neighbourhood – some even did it close to puberty!  […]