Husbands who believe they’re goaded into being violent!
By Bunmi Sofola WILL spousal violence ever go away? Two readers sent in their views recently. One is a married mother of three and the other is a bewildered husband who’s been physically and mentally abused by his wife. “My husband and I were together for nearly ten years,” wrote Ibi, “and he was a […]
Embarrassed by my ill-shaped boobs
Dear Bunmi, I have a smashing figure – tight stomach, nice bum (especially in thongs!), big boobs but one breasts is slightly bigger than the other. I’m sure everyone can notice this. As a result, I don’t often leave the light on when I make love in case my partner laughs. Can this problem be fixed? […]
Inside life: I’m in love with a married mom
Dear Bunmi,I’m in love with a married mother of two, though I’ve never really gotten married. I’ve had a live-in relationship that produced a son I admire. Don’t tell me to stop seeing this woman! I love her too much. We meet regularly and, no, we don’t rip each other’s clothes off. Very often we just sit, hold […]
I don’t want a hush-hush romance
. Dear Bunmi, I will be 50 this year. Seven months ago, I fell for a man I’ve known socially for sometime. He says he’s committed to me but doesn’t want to get married again, after his first marriage failed. Yet, I can’t live with him without getting married, as my religion doesn’t allow it. […]
Could she be having an affair?
I love my wife dearly and we’ve been married for over 10 years. She’s given me three lovely children and we live in our own house.
Should I wait till he leaves his wife?
I have always admired the matured way you tackle problems on your page. Now in your experience, if a man says he loves you, but that he’ll never leave his kids, no matter how unhappy his wife makes him, does he ever change his mind? I just turned 20 and I love my man so passionately I am prepared to wait.
