Relationships

The need to stop equating sex with love

By Bunmi Sofola Some women’s sexual escapades often sound stranger than fiction.  Why does a particular woman seek sex all of the time, with different men losing all sense of shame?  Abibat’s reason was because she thought she was fat and unattractive. The only way she could have been interested in her was to spread […]
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I hope to make a positive impact on marriages globally— Evans Francis 

By Josephine Agbonkhese  In a world where many marriages now hardly exceed their fifth year, leaving both partners and children in great pain, the need for intensive pre-marriage tutelage can never be over-emphasised.  Popular Indian-born relationship coach, Evans Francis, is however set to champion this cause and change the global narrative for relationships and marriages.  […]

Dear Bunmi, afraid to tell friends about my failed marriage

A few years ago, my husband left me for another woman. We were only married for four years and we had no children. I was very upset and found it easier not to tell people, because I knew I’d just start crying. My family lives in another state and I didn’t have any close friends […]

Dear Bunmi, I find it difficult to cope with campus life

I started university this year and I really hate it; I haven’t made any real friends. My course is more difficult than I envisaged and my room-mates are all messy, and they stay up partying into the wee hours. But, most of all, I’m really homesick.  I’m very close to my family and miss them […]

Dear Bunmi, I’ve mourned hubby for 6 months; I’m ready to mingle

I lost my husband of 20 years to cancer six months ago. Our two children are away in their various universities and I am now unbearably lonely, and feel as though life is passing me by. I’ve tried going out with friends but everyone in the area knows that I’m widowed, so I receive unwanted […]

Dear Bunmi, I no longer want to be stay-at-home wife

When we got married, I agreed to stay at home with our four children. So, for the past 12 years I have been a full-time mom, which has been great. But now they’re all at school, I’m itching to go back to work, only my husband is kicking against it. It’s true I want for […]

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