‘I regret snatching my friend’s husband’ — Reader
By Bunmi Sofola A Reader wrote: I have followed your columns way back from your Punch days when I was in the university. Most of the times, your articles are so down-to-earth they speak to me – as if you are writing about me. In one of the editions of Sunday Vanguard a few months back, […]
Dear Bunmi, should I choose my son over my hubby?
Dear Bunmi says: ‘Be there for your son. Offer him a safe place from temptations. If your husband doesn’t like it, he’ll be the one to go’
Dear Bunmi, we were both virgins
Dear Bunmi says: ‘If you feel you’re about to climax, withdraw, change position or think about something else’
Baby-hungry single women are the reason some men are having the snip!
By Bunmi Sofola A few months into a fledging relationship, divorcee Donald was in bed with attractive, much younger partner when she whispered a proposal that punctured the mood. It wasn’t so much as actual demand as a loaded question that had Donald reconsidering the future – not only with her, but about his life […]
Dear Bunmi, wife becomes born again after 15 years of marriage
“If she’s so devout that things you used to enjoy together are now off the menu, you need to get counselling. If not properly handled, this could put your marriage in jeopardy”
Dear Bunmi, my step-daughter’s hostile
“It’s time to put an end to the pretence. He needs to spell out that anyone who disrespects his wife is disrespecting him”
