My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and almost 2 months. We have had many problems in the past. But now he talks to another girl who was always flirting with him and he usually flirts back. The thing is that both of us are big flirts by nature.

It’s indeed bad to hear what you have been through and the impact it is having on you going back to school. You have a right to feel safe at school and it is understandable that having to see someone who has already abused your rights when you were in a relationship would make you uncomfortable.

He’s telling me that he is trying to change but I’m scared of making a mistake by giving him all my trust and then getting my heart broken, like recently. I need your advice and I need clarification on if I made a mistake by getting back with him multiple times.

My boyfriend complains and sometimes gets upset that my vagina is looser than other times. He thinks I’m cheating, but I’m not. I lost my virginity to him when I was 19 and we are planning to get married when I graduate from the University. Now, I’m 22 and we are still an item and this problem is surfacing. What’s going on?

I was her first, she wasn’t my first and she seems to be incredibly emotionally attached to me.
Considering that she is religious, although our sex was fully consensual, I am still afraid of what her stance could be if I broke up with her.