Put your wife down at your peril!
By Bunmi Sofola LARA had often moaned that someone else had got the life she was supposed to have. We were mates at the secondary school and have remained close decades after we left. A fairly brilliant student, we were all mildly surprised when she opted for matrimony. Within the spate of a decade, she’d not […]
Parents who encourage siblings’ rivalry damage their children
I think it’s fair to say that my sister Kate—eight years my senior—hated me from the moment I was born” sighed 39-year-old Adesuwa, a mother of three and an educationist. “She bullied me relentlessly throughout our childhood, and she won’t dispute either of these facts. Cruel, frequently violent and resentful of my very existence, her bullying left me damaged to the point that it will forever impinge on my happiness.
From my mailbox
Thanks for this article on Uncle Rufus and Mummy Laide. It is as if the story is about my father. He married seven wives while he was alive and did not take care of us the 18 products of his relationships. Instead, he spent his money on clothes, musicians and more women. My mother, like most of the other mothers took care of themselves and their children. Many of them were forced to move out to take care of their children as single parents. The two wives who lived to old age in his house, probably did so because they had no other place to go when the others were leaving one after the other. Till today, we still ask our mother what she saw back then in a man who already had six wives and 14 children.
How can I give as much pleasure as I get?
My boyfriend is five years older than me. He is a great lover, but I’d only had sex a couple of times with my ex before we got together and I feel like I’m lousy, especially when compared to his ex-girlfriends. He keeps asking me to make love to him, but I’m terrified as I don’t know what to do.
My hubby wants oral sex, but…
My husband and I have a good sex life, but I’ve never really got much kick out of oral sex. Most women go on about how good it is, but it does nothing for me. When making love, I like really firm pressure and a slithering tongue just can’t provide that. In fact, the only time it worked for me, I stimulated myself with my fingers before my husband finished things off.
Relationship: He dumped me when his wife found out
When my husband died five years ago, one of the people who stood by me was an ex-boyfriend. We had a really passionate relationship which later fizzled out. When I became lonely – I had just one child by my husband – my ex took me out and we soon started a relationship. Though I was looking at just the sex, my ex said he loved me and would support me in whatever I do.
