Though most of us now accept that sex is a normal part of adult life, many still shy away from its realities and discussing it. Sources of information about sex and sexuality are many but often deal in old wives tales and might not be scientifically correct most of the time. So, let’s just refresh our minds, update our notes and learn new information about sex and sexuality and how it affects us. Do have a wonderful weekend!!

THE questions most readers of this column ask always make me wonder how many of you out there really know how uninhibited sex could be and how you can acquire sexual experiences that work for you. Unfortunately, these experiences don’t just happen. You need to work on your self-confidence so that you feel strong enough to ask for what you want in bed. A lot of women find it hard to say: “Can you take it more slowly dear,” because they think it implies criticism. The thing to do is to lavish praise on his sills as a lover and then slip in a suggestion or two about what you really want.

An Akure Customary Court in Ondo state, on Wednesday dissolved a nine-year-old marriage over childlessness.

Last year I discovered that my husband was sleeping with one of his workers inhis office. She is a girl I was fairly used to and when confronted, my husband admitted everything and promised to call things off. He did and the girl in question eventually found another job.

I’m average in height and not quite slim. My bum is the problem. It is massiveand not proportional to my figure. I’m in my 30s, and a single mother of a lovely son.