Dear Bunmi, I will be 50 this year. Seven months ago, I fell for a man I’ve known socially for sometime. He says he’s committed to me but doesn’t want to get married again after his first marriage failed. Yet, I can’t live with him without getting married, as my religion doesn’t allow it. We […]

Dear Bunmi, My 25th birthday is around the corner and I’m thinking of having a fairly big one. My current boyfriend is getting worked up about it and hinted he had something really special planned for the day. That gets me panicking because I’ve been unhappy with the relationship and plan to dump him. As […]

Dear Bunmi, I am 16 and there is this  18-year-old boy who has been sending me letters and text messages informing me how much he loves me. He keeps on trying to convince me that I’m the only one who occupies his heart. When I told him that I don’t want him to be my […]

Dear Bunmi, For quite a while now  I’ve got what looks like a dark moustache on my upper lip and, recently, I’ve started to sprout hairs on the chin and my chest. Not exactly ‘magnet’ when you want to pull a man, you’ll agree. I’ve tried shaving, but it seems to encourage the growth. Are […]

Dear Bunmi, Two years ago, my boyfriend moved in with me and my two children from a previous marriage. He got on well with the children and things seemed to be going well, until a few months ago when he told me he would rather be on his own. I was surprised. When I pressed […]