Can a career woman really do without a man’s love?
By Bunmi Sofola HAVE you readers noticed the new and growing breed of ‘forever singles’? It consists of a band of empowered, independent women who don’t want to be defined by a relationship. Not for them nights slumped on the sofa trying to pacify a screaming kid whilst their man snores in front of Super […]
What do you do with a bad child?
I learned a few months later that he did another one right in his room under my roof. The girl was one of his friend’s girlfriends
Dear Bunmi, my friends want me to get a prettier girl
The problem with her is her plain looks. My ex always has a sneer on her face whenever we run into her, and my friends say I could do better
How comfortable are you with your husband’s other wives!
For most women, introducing another woman into the marital home would be unthinkable in spite of the polygamous marriages that are almost the norm in the society. Fatima grew up in a polygamous setting in which she said was a happy one. When she got married 14 years ago, she wasn’t under any illusion she […]
What you expect from your marriage is not what you often get!
By Bunmi Sofola Will the average person experiencing problems in their relationship know the right time to walk away? It goes without saying that divorce now is quick and with little rancour, single parenthood is on the increase and more men opt for the single life despite the fact that eligible women are two a […]
Dear Bunmi, how do I get rid of my boring boyfriend?
Dear Bunmi, twice I’ve called off the relationship because I thought we weren’t right for each other. But he always convinced me to get back
