Why men ought to be more concerned about their health!
By Bunmi Sofola Looks as if Nigerian men are paying the price for neglecting their health, with more men dying prematurely every year. But common male health problems can be detected and treated earlier (if not prevented) with better awareness and regular check-ups. Listed are some of the health issues highlighted by experts and how […]
Put your wife down at your peril!
By Bunmi Sofola LARA had often moaned that someone else had got the life she was supposed to have. We were mates at the secondary school and have remained close decades after we left. A fairly brilliant student, we were all mildly surprised when she opted for matrimony. Within the spate of a decade, she’d not […]
Escapades of a typical ‘Area Father!’
By Bunmi Sofola As soon as Terry walked into his lavishly furnished home at his usual time of 8p.m. or thereabout, his wife was waiting for him. His best food was kept hot in the food warmer, his favourite bottle of wine nesting in the fridge. This was late last year when Covid-19 was virtually unheard of. […]
The fun of dating a reformed toy boy!
They’ve often been seen as greedy men with champagne taste on a beer budget. Yet, toy boys are as well grounded as the average nymphet on the prowl of a sugar-daddy. It is alright for the man to go after girls young enough to be his grand-daughter, but, a sort of an abomination for the […]
Would you still be generous to a friend who betrayed you?
By Bunmi Sofola FAMILIARITY not only breeds contempt, it also breeds a hotbed of opportunities for unfaithfulness. The more close-knit a crop of friends are, the wider the chances of swopping partners, albeit discreetly. Tope’s recent experience, however, took the cake when it comes to how far you can go in forgiving a friend who ‘snatched’ […]
Dear Bunmi, her fiance made a pass at me
Last Christmas, I stayed over with one of my friends and slept on her sofa. Next thing I knew, her boyfriend was leaning over me and kissing me. Of course, I pushed him away – but ever since, he’s been calling me and texting me, asking for us to meet up. And once, when I […]
