Husbands who believe they’re goaded into being violent!
By Bunmi Sofola WILL spousal violence ever go away? Two readers sent in their views recently. One is a married mother of three and the other is a bewildered husband who’s been physically and mentally abused by his wife. “My husband and I were together for nearly ten years,” wrote Ibi, “and he was a […]
Dear Bunmi, either of them could be my baby’s father
I am seven months pregnant and I’m not sure who the father of my baby is. I don’t know if it is my current boyfriend or the one before him. To be honest, I am still in love with my ex-boyfriend and very much want the baby to be his.We split up about the time […]
Dear Bunmi, my husband gave me VD!
Whenever I see my husband, I feel like physically hurting him. You see, I currently have venereal disease and he is responsible. He must have picked it up from one of the string of cheap girls he’s always seen with! In the last four weeks we’d made love fairly regularly. It was during this period […]
Dear Bunmi, she hurt me badly!
I am in my early 60s and very youthful, fit and forward looking. I’ve lived in my own house for over 10 years. My wife died and the two children of the marriage are now happily married. About three years after my wife died, I met this divorcee who was an assistant principal in a […]
When marriage is not such a big deal
IFY has definitely come a long way from where women stood some 30 years ago on relationships. Five years after relocating from the USA with three degrees under her belt, she’s running a very successful IT company that she’s in her early 30s, shouldn’t she be thinking of settling down? “Why should I when I […]
How some men enjoy humiliating successful women!
By Bunmi Sofola Why do some successful women fall for cads? This was a poser I put to Jola, a very good friend and a thorough professional who continues to reap the benefits of her labour. Unfortunately, the same couldn’t be said for her husband. They are both chartered accountants but Jola was lucky because […]
