When I discovered she was going to make herself comfortable to avoid going home to Fola, I packed some of the fish stew and rice in a warmer and sent her on her way.  She’s made her bed, let’s see how she enjoys having to lie on this one! 

By Bunmi Sofola EVERY time a woman feels she’s been done by in a relationship with the opposite sex, she goes yahooing about it to everyone who cares to listen – including the press,” so wrote Effiong in response to the article: ‘When you’re in love, you’ll believe even a serial womaniser,’ featured on this page […]

By Bunmi Sofola It never fails to amaze me some of the reasons people give for behaving inappropriately.  When Feyi’s marriage hit the rocks some years back, we agreed she had genuine reasons to move out of her matrimonial home.  Her husband was a cheat and violent with it.  “With the experience, I had with […]

Dear Bunmi says “Is it because you have two men making love to you, at the same time boost your self-esteem? Believing you’re not a sex-pot may be your problem”

“Remember, you don’t have to be married in the same way as your mom and dad were.Checkmate the marriage you want – in your own style”