The need to stop equating sex with love
By Bunmi Sofola Some women’s sexual escapades often sound stranger than fiction. Why does a particular woman seek sex all of the time, with different men losing all sense of shame? Abibat’s reason was because she thought she was fat and unattractive. The only way she could have been interested in her was to spread […]
Philandering husbands who can’t take a dose of their medicine!
By Bunmi Sofola It is really amazing how an everyday occurrence suddenly snowballs into a nightmare. A chance meeting with a friend, and Kayode’s world came tumbling down. He’d rushed home in the middle of the day to pick up an important file he’d forgotten to take with him when he left for work in the […]
Dear Bunmi, I want to lose my virginity
“There is absolutely nothing stopping you from getting pregnant when you have sex, be it your first or your hundredth”
Dear Bunmi, my ex is married but she’s paying me for lovemaking
“She never promised anything more than the good times you can give each other. Make the most of it but don’t forget to leave room for a more lasting relationship, if you intend to re-marry”
How to always be one step ahead of your cunning mother-in-law!
By Bunmi Sofola EVERY time Ireti visited her mother-in-law, her teeth were always on edge. Ruth, her mother-in-law is now in her mid 70s, frail and ailing, but as full of spite as when Ireti married her precious son 15 years ago. “Ruth and I had always been at war,” confessed Ireti, “but Gboye, my […]
Men who compete with their babies over breast milk!
SOME years back, when I first learnt of ‘adult nursing’ I was greatly amused. Was there no depth these men would not sink in their fixation with boobs? Now they’d carried it off to a ridiculous extent. “Adult nursing” is the term used for men who enjoy being breast-fed by a nursing mother! According to James, […]
