Weddings are social and family gatherings. Parents, family, friends and well wishers are usually in attendance to witness the rituals and the taking of vows by the couple. This way, the couple is married before both God and man. The role of these witnesses however does not end after the social ceremonies, they still have a responsibility towards the success of the marriage after the wedding.

I’ve noticed another worrying trend—a lot of the women from my state are getting married to men outside the state

Dear Bunmi, I’ve been married for 16 years and we have three children. I recently learnt from a family member that my husband had a secret family who lived close to her friend’s house – and that the woman had two children for my husband. I didn’t really believe her because she’s naturally a vicious […]

DearBunmi, I have a problem that has been worrying me ever since my relationship with myboyfriend became physical. We’ve been together for six months.I’m 22 and he is acouple of years older, but since we started having sex, I constantly worry aboutbecoming pregnant. We use condoms, but I can’t enjoy sex as the fear of […]

I’m in my early thirties and the mother of two kids with a third one on the way.Since the birth of my first child six years ago, I’ve completely lost interest in sex. This is causing real problems between me and my husband. Although I don’t enjoy sex, I have it with my husband at least twice a week. I feel it’s my duty and I don’t want todisappoint him.