By Doris Amaka Ochei

Every child you encounter is a divine appointment — Wess Stafford

Wess Stafford, the extraordinary man whose famous quote appears above, is well known for his deep compassion for children. For many decades, he served as the CEO of Compassion International and made a significant impact as an advocate for children. This is a familiar story that resonates with those who have read about him. He will always be remembered for walking the path of compassion in both words and actions. Recognizing the importance of literature in every society, especially in these challenging times, Stafford gave the world two remarkable books: Too Small to Ignore and Just a Minute. His daily national radio short feature, Speak Up with Compassion, also touched lives across different countries in profound ways.

I chose to begin my reflections with Stafford because the world would be a better place with more people like him. Honestly, I share his views and commitment to a better society. Children, whether they are ours or not, are incredibly important—that is why life becomes meaningless without them.

There are countless reasons to love kids. Beyond their innocence and purity, children embody love and straightforwardness, bringing joy and laughter wherever they go. I also love their curiosity, positivity, persistence, honesty, humility, creativity, cheerfulness, and benevolence. Moreover, there is a spiritual dimension to children. I need not belabor this all-important point, as Stafford’s quote—“Every child you encounter is a divine appointment”—already speaks volumes. In Matthew 19:13–14, our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, says: “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these.”

This truth underscores the significance of children both here on earth and in the hereafter. Consequently, I am intentional about prioritizing children despite my busy schedule. When I am with them, I set aside my worries to listen and answer their innocent, unending questions. The more questions they ask, the happier I become. I am particularly fascinated by their optimism and simplicity. Whenever I am with a child, I feel energized and hopeful because of their immense imagination, vulnerability, and positive outlook on life. For instance, their simple conversations can uplift anyone’s spirit and inspire hope—a quality I deeply cherish. I also admire the determination children show in pursuing their dreams, even when the odds are stacked against them. Unlike adults, children often speak their minds without fear of judgment and await feedback, even when it may not favor them.

For many years, I wrestled with thoughts about how best to support children—not just by being a positive role model but also by teaching them kindness, responsibility, and respect. Above all, I aspired to dedicate a day exclusively for children. About five years ago, to the glory of God, this dream became a reality.

Every December 26, all roads lead to Onicha-Olona, a major town in Aniocha North Local Government Area, Delta State. On this day each year, the Doris Amaka Ochei (DAO) Foundation organizes a highly anticipated Christmas Party for children. This day brings joy, excitement, and anticipation—not just for the children and their teachers but also for adults from various walks of life. To ensure the event is memorable, our team of volunteers—dedicated individuals from diverse backgrounds—begins planning nine months in advance to leave no detail unattended.

The event features activities such as dance competitions, Bible quizzes, pantomimes, dramas depicting the season, debates, musical performances, cultural displays, and the “Master and Miss DAO” beauty pageant. Father Christmas is always present to distribute gifts, adding color to the occasion. Last year alone, the DAO Foundation distributed over 2,000 customized school bags, water bottles, notebooks, pencils, pens, and mathematical sets. The highlight of the event was awarding cash prizes to exceptionally creative children and scholarships to students from schools within the local government area.

As someone who values symbolism in my endeavors, Onicha-Olona represents a focal point, yet invitations are extended to pupils and students in public schools from neighboring towns and communities. They come in large numbers to partake in the event. Though the gathering takes place annually in Onicha-Olona, children from outside the town have also won prizes and scholarships in the past, making it an inclusive celebration for all children within and beyond Aniocha North Local Government Area.

Sometimes, I wonder what life would be like without these adorable kids who bring sunshine, fulfillment, and hope to our lives as adults. A world without children would undoubtedly be a bleak, joyless place. Since Christmas is a season of love and togetherness, we must open our hearts as individuals and groups and embrace the spirit of giving—wherever we may be in the world, not just in Onicha-Olona.

For now, another Christmas Party beckons. We are ready and excited that the season of love and anticipation is here again. As I look forward to welcoming these wonderful children, I pray and hope that this year’s activities will surpass those of the previous year.

May God bless our children as I wish them a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year in advance.
God bless our children!

By Doris Amaka Ochei, PhD, Business Development Coach and Gender Advocate, writes from Lagos.