I’M in my mid 50s currently friendly with a woman at work who is 41. Her marriage ended acrimoniously two years ago when she discovered her husband cheating on her with one of her close relatives. We’ve been out for a few drinks after work but I think she was shocked when I told her my age. I’ve always looked and acted younger than my age. Since then, she’s been a bit standoffish and we haven’t seen each other outside work.