DOESN'T it bother you that most of our young men are turning into shameless gold-diggers?" I was a bit taken aback when Stella asked this question outright when she called at my place. She's a former boyfriend's niece and a few of the members of his family that I'm close to. She's in her late 40s, married with lovely children and a fairly comfortable husband. She heads the public relations department of a parastatal and has money of her own. Once in a while, she'd “throw some work at us at the training centre and I make sure she's well looked after. So what brought on her question?