Wasn’t it Neil Sedaka that sang: Breaking up is hard to do, all those decades ago?  Breaking up is a lot harder on the dumpee, who, until they got kicked in the teeth, thought the sun shone and set on their partners.  “Jaiye and I were together for four years, on and off when he broke up with me”, recalled Kate, now 28, and into a new relationship after battling the symptoms of a broken heart.