“Dear Bunmi, my lover is happily married, so what we had was a fling. But why was I attracted to another man, when I love my husband? Is my marriage doomed?”

By Bunmi Sofola One of the serious problems of second marriages is bonding with your step-children. It becomes a bit complicated when you have children of your own. Your step-children are instantly on the defensive – you love your children more than you love them, treat your children better and tell on them to their […]

By Bunmi Sofola One of the biggest mistakes you can make is put your friend up in your flat ‘on a temporary basis’ especially when your place is a bit crammed.  Bilikis was desperate for a place to stay and Anne, her childhood friend put her up.  But now Ann’s ‘guest’ had been with her […]

Dear Bunmi, as a matter of fact, she was the wayward one. I kept an incriminating letter she wrote to a close friend who was once her lover

I currently live with my boyfriend of six years and we have a lovely three-year-old son. Before I met my boyfriend, I had a crush on his brother and I’m afraid I still find him attractive. Every time I see him, the feelings get stronger. I can’t stop thinking about him, even though I now […]