But one pertinent issue which seems to arouse great curiosity and sometimes surprise is one frequently raised by guys concerning their sex organ. Often you get to read such questions like; how do I increase my penis? My organ is too small, or too big! Will I ever be able to satisfy my woman?

Perhaps, the new sexual consciousness and revolution is also taking it toll on the situation. Sex shops are not only springing up in almost all corners of big cities across the country, most of them are smiling all the way to the banks selling various forms of potions designed at size reduction or enhancement of the sex organs. Some believe the problem associated with the size of sex organ, particularly in men is more psychological than physical, while some others insist it is both and even capable of causing some other problems in relationships if not properly tackled.

As is our style, we decided to tackle this issue headlong by going to town and asking our respondents what they think. Additional report is provided by Onozure Dania. You are also invited to share your experience and views with us on this crucial issue. Our address remains: The Human Angle, Vanguard, P.M.B. 1007, Apapa, Lagos. Or e-mail address: This e-mail address is being protected from spam bots, you need JavaScript enabled to view it We’ll be expecting to read from you soon. Happy reading!!

John, (45), Driver, says those who complain lack the spirit of God:
When the spirit of God is not in you, that is when you will start complaining about the organ of your husband’s manhood, either being too small or too big. And that is why some women run out of their matrimonial homes searching for men with various sizes who can please them better that their god given partners.

That is why it is good that a man and woman should clear their minds of all distractions and identify what they want to go into a marriage for. Before you get married, you must pray to God to give you a wife or husband who will satisfy you sexually without complain. When I wanted to get married, I sought the face of God to give me a woman that will be satisfied with the way I am.

A woman that will not start running after other men for any reason. And I got the type of a woman I really wanted and today we are still together.

There is no question of us having to quarrel over my manhood being too short or small, as far as it performs its function. In fact, even before I got married, I never complained about anything concerning my women, and they too never complained about me.

I believe I have always satisfied them. There is an adage that says it is whatever size of penis a man has that he uses on his wife, he will never go and borrow another man’s own. I also believe that if the love is there, there will be nothing like size of penis at all.

Joe, (36), Architect, says sex in a puzzle:
I’m average size. I’ve slept with only three women in my life. The fist was a serious relationship, and we had great sex.

We were so tuned to each other we could come together nearly every time we had sex. The second girl was all eyes and fairly petite. Believe me, when I say I got very good feedback. In those instances, not being huge was easily overcome by caring for her, paying attention to body language, and being blessed with common sense and rhythm.

The last girl I slept with I couldn’t ‘spoon’ with. Her backside was simply too big for me to handle properly for what it was worth. So sex was always awkward, and sometimes I felt like I was swimming in a bucket of hot water.

So, I think the magic is just to find somebody that fits you, as a male or female. I think God has created us differently in that department too, just like he created us different from each other. Sex is like puzzle pieces, everything has to line up, Mind, Body, and Soul. It mus fit it, whether big or small.

Denis, (38), Banker, says only perverts talk about size:
No. Size doesn’t matter to most women.

I think I know a little about the female anatomy enough to say that, the average depth of the vagina, is less than the average length of the male penis. So, how would having a penis larger than the woman’s space make a pleasurable difference?

Not unless she wants it to be painful and that means she has other things in mind rather than the normal sex that most couples have. That will be tending towards a kind of perversion. The size of your penis will hardly matter if you know what you are doing with it. Just because your boat is the Titanic, does not mean you know how to steer it.

A man should not think he has got everything going his way just because a lady thinks he’s big. Sometimes, a man may even drive a lady crazy because he’s too big and does not know how to control it. While you are thinking you have impressed her with your macho size, she is only thinking of getting it over with and bolting away for good. She is surely going to dump him for a smaller guy with more sense. Men with bigger sizes should never assume that is what every lady prefers.

Katharine, (34), Secretary, insists that size matter to women:
You’ve got to be kidding me. Yes, size matter to many women, but not to all. It all depends on her anatomy and how relaxed she is with her man.

Most women want at least an average sized man but will learn to love the small sized men to if that is what they have to contend with. The secret from my experience is for a small sized man to try and find himself a woman who is not so much into coital sex, and learn to do amazing foreplay.

A small sized man must be willing to make sacrifices, he must be patient too, so he will be able to satisfy his woman in other areas, rather than coital sex.

Otherwise, he will only saddle himself with a liar as wife. Yes a liar. Those are women who fake orgasm just so their men will let them go and they can rest, or just to make the male happy so he can think he has done a great job.

Whereas, they are just lying, trying to package the relationship since they are already saddled with it either by marriage or some other forms of commitments.

Evans, (29), Banker, says  it doesn’t matter.
 It depends on the individuals involved in the act. What I mean by that is, people prefer different things. However, most girls I’ve met prefer big sized men. Personally, I like my girls anyhow, be they small or big. That is in terms of body mass.

However, I don’t think there is anything such as a lady bing too big down there. God has created the place to be elastic, such that no matter the size of object that passes through, it still manages to spring back into its former shape and size. However, exercises have been proven to improve the elasticity of the place. A wise woman will take note of this.

However I’m not sure size should be a serious determinant for enjoying sex, rather it is the skill put into it that actually brings about enjoyment. Women are naturally slower to be sexually aroused than men, so it takes a much longer time for the woman to attain orgasm.

Men must learn the tricks of the game and not blame it on size.

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