Tuesday July 29th, 2014
Tuesday July 29th, 2014
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Why Men are not eager to get Married Today

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Recently I came to the conclusion that a lot of our men are no longer eager to get married. I believe they have their reasons and like most of them say, they never have enough money for the wedding day and maybe afterwards.

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Factors that affect your calorie needs (Part1)

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Watch out for trans-fat! Several studies show that eating a little of what you love makes you more likely to stick to your diet; just be sure to avoid treats made with TRANS-FAT like meat pie, doughnuts and a whole lot of processed snacks (puff-puff, small chops) – the list goes on. And, what more, avoid those sugar-loaded soft drinks and fruit juices!

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Factors that affect your calorie needs (Part2)

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Do not be deceived; slow and steady wins the race. There is no magic in losing weight. Weight lost through starving or depending on strong suppressants that make you forget about eating or by taking “Chinese capsules” is deadly and, of course, the weight comes back so quickly and even more because you can not starve all your life.

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Who is lying to you that a divorcee can’t re-marry?

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I hear so much when people talk to me telephone or chat with me via my BB. Have you ever listened to any religious teaching that says God has only one right person for you when it comes to marriage, and that if you miss that one person, you can never be happy with anybody else?

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Help, my father is with another woman just after my mother’s death!

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Thanks for your articles. They have been quite educative and captivating, indeed. I never thought a day will come that I will be writing to you. I just thought I will be reading the articles; learning but never get in touch.

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Sexless marriages!

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Some time ago, I wanted to make love to my wife and realized that I didn’t have an erection, I almost freaked out. Until now I had heard that it happens to men that are in their forties and above, but I never believed it can happen to me, because I had always thought I was “George of the Jungle”

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Are you still having sex with your spouse

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Men and women don’’t know how to please each other very well at all. There simply has been too much focus on intercourse as a way of reaching mutual pleasure. It takes more than 20 minutes, on average, for a woman to become aroused to the point of orgasm. 75% of men don’’t take 2 minutes, and not enough men and women have worked at mastering The Art of a 25-Minute Arousal.

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The guy on facebook says I am his wife!

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Hi Jerome, I got a message in my inbox from someone who said he saw he saw me on FACEBOOK though my friends list and found we do not share any mutual friends. He said he believes I am his wife and sent a number so I can call him

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How do you start all over again?

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Some of my clients sit in my counseling office asking “Jerome, how do I start all over again?” I ask them if they are really ready to start all over again, because I know starting all over again may involve starting from scratch, sometimes. And, that’s what a lot of people don’t want to do. They will rather manage with a life of mediocrity, and hope it will still continue to get them some results, no matter how useless the results may be.

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To be out of sight is to be out of mind!

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Where have you been? It’s been quite a long time. What do you do now? Are you married? Do you have children of your own? Do you work for someone or you have your own organization where others work for you

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Help! I have joined the league of married women who cheat on their husbands.

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I know what I am doing is wrong, and that’s why I need help. My husband has been cheating on me for a long time. I had cause to talk to him to ease things between us, but he won’t listen. I have a good job but my husband’s job takes him away for at least a month or two before he comes home. The issue here is recently I met a young man who is separated from his wife and all over me

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My valentine gift put me in the police cell

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I was very tired and still had so much to do but based on the recommendation of my doctor, I agreed to go home (Cotonou) to rest for 3 days. I had thought it will be nice, indeed, to go home and be cared for by Lawrenta Omono, my wife and best friend

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I’m HIV positive and very positive about life!

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Lovely articles, I must confess. I always look forward to reading ‘Get Captivated’ and have learnt so much. But Jerome, if I have to be truly sincere with you, I think you have fallen short of paying attention to those of us that are HIV positive. I have never seen an article from you in respect of that.

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Help, my father is with another woman just after my mother’s death!

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Thanks for your articles. They have been quite educative and captivating, indeed. I never thought a day will come that I will be writing to you. I just thought I will be reading the articles; learning but never get in touch.

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Sex in the church?

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I know there was an announcement that all the Singles in the Church should wait after service, how come you didn’t wait?

“Because the Singles fellowship in my Church have no understanding of what Singles really need. Moreover, if I had gone for the meeting, it will be full of children than my mates. Challenges I am confronted with are not addressed, and I am tired of wasting my time. I would rather go for a show or watch a movie with my friends”.

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Your column saved me from a bad relationship

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Hello Jerome, my name is Victoria and I am an ardent reader of your column. I was particularly touched by your topic Are you in love with a Loser, because I was until recently in a relationship with a loser, a guy who tried to break me in every possible way, but thanks to God, my Moms counsel, and my courage that helped me to break free from it amidst pains and heartbreak.

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I just need you to get me pregnant!

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The longer that women delay serious relationships, marriage, and families, the worse it becomes for themselves as well as society in general. And the longer that both men and women do so, the harder it will become to conceive — and the greater the chance that their children will be born with physical or mental disorders since eggs and sperm start deteriorate in a person’s late twenties, and gets worse in the forties.

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Why some men don’t listen to their wives

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Everything has its life span; even the very lives we live on earth. We may live forever in Heaven but as long as we are here on earth, there is a time to be born and a time to die. Everything that will happen to you as a person will also happen within that lifespan. Who knows, for me, it may be the last time I will be writing, but I pray not. Or, for you, it may be the last time that you will be reading, but I pray not too. For some of us, this may be our last Christmas and yet for others, it will be their very first.

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I know what you want

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I have four sons from Lawrenta Omono my only wife, and I have fears for them when it comes to “Time To Get Married”. Those fears come from my experiences in my Counseling Room. I sit back and I listen to females tell me about how they have slept with a minimum of 25 Men, and what comes to my mind is, that means when she is getting married, her own husband who should be the only one to have slept with her if we go by God’s original plan will probably be the 31st Man sleeping with her, and I wonder what is left of the wholeness that she should have brought to her husband in Marriage. If you have slept with only 3 Men in your life as a woman, I can assure you that that is enough to visit a counselor and find out if all is still well with you, because every time we move away from God’s original plan, we pay for it in ways beyond our comprehension.

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Why you should ask questions at the beginning

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Dear Jerome, I read your column and I felt that you are the right person to advise me on my problem. I’m a final year Law student at the University of Benin. I met this guy, Okogie, during my 100 Level. He was a final year student then. The first impression I got about him

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I am cheating on my unfaithful Husband!

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Hello Jerome, I know what I am doing is wrong, and that’s why I need help. I had earlier spoken to you on your 08037194335. My husband has been cheating on me for a long time. I had cause to talk to him to ease things between us, but he won’t listen. I have a

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I can’t to find you

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If you’re interested in meeting new people, send fewer text messages and make more phone calls. For females, I advice you let a guy do more of the calling; if he wants you he will chase you, just be available. Spend less time downloading music for your iPod and spend more time listening to live

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