ITâ€™S often said that you never know a partner until you live together. For almost two years, Deola and Cletus not only courted, they lived in each otherâ€™s flat. When Cletus eventually proposed marriage, Deola had no problems whatsoever accepting to be his wife.Read More
Different strokes for different folks. But itâ€™s all a personal choice, it seems. While some agree that there is nothing wrong getting pregnant before marriage, others frown at it, from different standpoints. If you were caught in such a dilemma, what would you do?Read More
So, every girl you know is doing it and you think itâ€™s cool. Besides, they have goodies to show for their philanderings . You have heard all the talks about aristos being bread-winners and you can even keep a normal relationship while you keep your married man boyfriend and that seems normal since you are having the best of both worlds. Do you consider the consequences?Read More
ENO has been a non-conformist all her life, so this eventful day, she waited patiently at the VIP lounge of the local airport, fuming at the unnecessary delay in her flight when she noticed this young chap in his late thirties saunter towards where she was. Eno is in her late fifties. Curiously, she glanced at the seemingly shy man as he perched on a seat next to her. The conversation was stilled at first until Eno let it drop that she had an engagement at the Port Harcourt branch of the motel she ran. â€œHe instantly became interested in what I had to say and was chatting away as if heâ€™d just discovered his tongue,â€ Eno recalled. â€œWhen we eventually boarded the plane, it was inevitable that we sat together.Read More
FROM time to time, I get letters from you readers that are so interesting that I feel I ought to share them with the rest of you. A few days back, a letter simply signed â€œIyabodeâ€ landed on my desk and I couldnâ€™t help chuckling to myself as I read it. She wrote: â€œDear Bunmi, I am one of the regular readers of your articles in The Vanguard every Sunday and I do not even know how fully I can express my feelings about your articlesRead More
ekinat thought there was nothing wrong in dating a man who has a wife. Her father had three wives and her mother was wife number two. Her religion also allows that.Read More
Who should be older in a relationship- the man or the woman? What happens if the woman finds out that the man she wants to marry is younger? Will she go on with the wedding or simply walk away? Should the age difference be an obstacle to true love?Read More
â€œShall we qo somewhere quieter?â€ he now asked, taking my arm. I followed him on my stilettos, ignoring the blister on my left heel and we plonked on two chairs near the door.Read More
Violence at home or in any relationship is a serious threat. A guy who bullies his lady or threatens her at the slightest provocation needs to have his head examined. A woman who destroys everything in the home or smashes windscreens of her guyâ€™s vehicle or other things precious to him is not on the right track. She needs counseling and psycho-therapy just like the guy that destroys or batters a woman to drive home a point.Read More
In the past, the choice of whom one married was tempered by tradition. Although parents have a large role to play in the marital life of their children, most young people would prefer taking the plunge on their own. Can your parents decide your choice of a spouse?
Bridget Amaraegbu has all the answers as usual. Enjoy.
This week, Bridget Amaraegbu takes a look at a common problem that has over time become part of our society. It is a situation where a newly wedded bride is confronted with the problem of coping with the troublesome antics of the husbandâ€™s love child.Read More
By Candida WHILST the year is almost half way through, I thought readers should re-vamp their sex life (if in actual fact it needs revamping!) by following these expertsâ€™ top tips on how to keep the spark alive!
By Bunmi Sofola FOR the first time in months, since she left home, Fausat was able to call on a visit. She was like a stranger in the house she couldnâ€™t wait to shake the dust off so many months ago. Her parents were their relaxed selves, her siblings were all over the place, laughing,
Sometimes, people believe jealousy depicts love but to what extent would such love keep a relationship going before it begins to suffocate it? Indeed, to a large extent, jealousy could become hazardous to a healthy relationship and can extinct it if not properly tackled. Trust goes a long way and that is what our male