I am so glad that you all agree with me that this season calls for serious celebration. As you begin to light and
decorate your house, you must also not fail to light up someone’s life. Spread some love. Be in a sharing and giving mood.

The year is fast moving towards the end, and to the glory of God we are still here. It is such a pleasure to know that we overcame. I really do want you to know what this season means to you all. It is really not a religious thing.

As long as you are willing, and available, there will always be a man ready to “scratch your back”. But move out of that situation, and perceive it from afar. I mean, disentangle yourself from the situation, and imagine that it was happening to someone else. It is nothing but filth. Yorubas call it “abasha”.

If you are a woman who is over forty years old, and you have not began to notice some lapses in your memory, then you are very lucky. For most women, memory lapses are a normal part of aging.

What you are is actually the result of the choices you make. Think about it. A person chooses the wrong career, that person is done for. Someone gets married to the wrong guy, that is trouble. Some choose to get educated, and others turn to the wild life and doing drugs.

I have told you before that no woman came out of her mothers womb looking like miss universe. Everyone does something…

What you are is actually the result of the choices you make. Think about it. A person chooses the wrong career, that person is done for. Someone gets married to the wrong guy, that is trouble.

If you know what I mean. Just round the corner, someone else tried to take that same next step but couldn’t. The same step that led one into promotion just might be the same to take another to the grave. If we do reflect on these facts, there would be less pride, bragging and arrogance all around us.

There is no problem with that. But the question is, does everyone earn what a Hollywood star earns? Really when a person has to borrow money to look good, it becomes a problem. For us, looking good starts with the house we live in, the car we drive, the clubs we go to, the people we hang out with, the shoes we wear and the whole works. Think about it.

You must rewind. Go back and see what might be responsible from your past that has brought you to this place of difficulties and crises. Guess what? Sometimes, you might have to dig beyond you to understand the origin of the predicament that you face today. Hear me, and hear me well.

Can I tell you something that would inspire you today? It is never too late to start dreaming. Never too late to dream. You are not too young or too old to dream. If by now you do not have a dream, get one. It is as easy as that, and really, if you must dream, dream big. If you can see it, you can be it. If you can dream it, you can get there.

You can be single and not empty. And if you do want to get married, you can. You don’t have to be embarrassed and feel useless because you are not married. Being single is not a curse.

So at the beginning of each day, she would raise up some money, and tell him “You can either earn this by doing things right, or throw it back to me” The first infuriating thing he does, she goes “minus hundred naira or Two hundred naira” depending on how serious the offence is.

Women! come on now? I read all you had to say. I do not disagree with you all. I am so much behind you but we must be able to tell the truth to one another. The reason why too many people miss it is because they get the wrong advice and wrong counsel. No one stands for the truth any more. That is why we all thank God for ‘Woman to women”. All I am saying is that let us all stop the unnecessary fighting that is going on all over.