We spend so much time on marriage and relationships, but unfortunately many women do not realize that in relationships especially marriage, for you to be a total success, you must appreciate the fact that that man did not just appear on planet earth. Someone birthed him, someone raised him, he grew up with certain people, he probably has brothers and sisters.

A couple of years ago, I lis-tened to a friend of mine complain about her mother, they just could not seem to get along and since we had grown up together, I had told her she was being the unreasonable party. Her mother like all moms was particularly fond of raking up past issues to buttress her point at any and every opportunity.

We all know that the year 2010 is moving fast towards the end. We all started in January, and we all started with high hopes inspite of the predictions by many renowned economists that things would be tough.

Lately my mind has been fix ated on my younger self and how great it would be if my older self had the opportunity to have a talk with that young lady.

Marriage is not something you jump into anyhow. We know of a truth that it is not good for a man or woman to be alone, so we agree that marriage is good. Marriage is the foundation of civilization. There are many forces fighting against successful marriages, and everyone, (no matter your religious dispensation), agrees with me.

Most people these days spend more time at work that they spend in their homes. Women spend more time with their co-workers than with their friends and family, and today, many women travel out of station with other co-workers.

Everyone who has been with Woman to Women for a while know that we have dealt with this issue. Any woman knows that it is so wrong to be in a marriage and to be having sex outside that marriage. It is an abomination. Every religion is against it. Womanhood is so special.

We all need to encourage one another and stop bad mouthing and criticizing one another. If we all made up our minds to operate in love, we are on the way. Being a woman making it in a mans world is tough enough. Do what you can be to help another succeed. Before too long, you would find yourself succeeding.

Today, I will go a little deeper on certain issues. Life itself is very deep, and you really cannot fully understand it. Just when you begin to think you are getting a grasp of what life is all about, things happen, and you begin to realize that it really is a little bit complicated.

This week, what we will discuss is not my position and really not my view per se, but when we are done, you would agree with me that it does make sense. Before I go further, I would like to state categorically that I am a great advocate for, marriage, I am very well married, and I do believe in marriage. I want that to be clear. I do not want to be labeled a woman’s libber or a feminist.

I really do not know what is happening. Something is changing and we all must not ignore it. I don’t know if it is something in the air or something in our diet. Either way, some people had better taking a serious look into it or everyone would be done for.

Theres so much going on in most homes, and many people do not know about it. Many women are so busy, they do not know what goes on in their homes behind closed doors.

I really do not know what is happening. Something is changing and we all must not ignore it. I don’t know if it is something in the air or something in our diet. Either way, some people had better taking a serious look into it or everyone would be done for.

We spend so much time on marriage and relationships, but unfortunately many women do not realize that in relationships especially marriage, for you to be a total success, you must appreciate the fact that that man did not just appear on planet earth. Someone birthed him, someone raised him, he grew up with certain people, he probably has brothers and sisters.