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	<title>Vanguard &#187; Human Angle</title>
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		<title>Bearing the red flag  (3)</title>
		<link>http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/11/03/bearing-the-red-flag-3/</link>
		<comments>http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/11/03/bearing-the-red-flag-3/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Nov 2009 23:00:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>alexsamade</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Human Angle]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[menstruating]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Ade, (29), Accountant: “I can’t remember clearly if the pains started immediately after I began menstruating or not. But if it didn’t, it couldn’t have been much longer. I began menstruating at the age of 14 years, a bit late because many of my age mates had started before then. Whenever the thing came, I would be so ill that going to school used to be a great problem.]]></description>
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		<title>Bearing the red flag  (2)</title>
		<link>http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/10/29/bearing-the-red-flag-2/</link>
		<comments>http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/10/29/bearing-the-red-flag-2/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Oct 2009 23:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>alexsamade</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Human Angle]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[blood]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[pains]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[When I started, I usually feel pains on the first day. But after the first day the pain subsides and then its just the flow. I used to think that all my blood will dry up with time if care was not taken because of the heaviness of my flow. So, I used to take blood tonic. But over the years, the flow has reduced. I guess it has found a pattern.]]></description>
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		<title>Bearing the red flag</title>
		<link>http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/10/27/bearing-the-red-flag/</link>
		<comments>http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/10/27/bearing-the-red-flag/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Oct 2009 23:00:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>alexsamade</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Human Angle]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[menstruation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[woman]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[I started menstruation at the age of 10. When I started, I felt strange because I thought I’d injured my self. But I could not recall how. I was so scared that I couldn’t tell my mum about it. Before it happened, I had no prior information about it, so that really made me scared all the more.  It was my aunty that saw me and now told my mum about it.]]></description>
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		<title>First time out: (11)</title>
		<link>http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/10/01/first-time-out-11/</link>
		<comments>http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/10/01/first-time-out-11/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Sep 2009 23:00:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>alexsamade</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Human Angle]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[blood]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.vanguardngr.com/?p=33642</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever tried to think back, capture the first time you had sex? What was it like, was it as imagined? When did you first have sex? Why did you do it? With whom and are you still with the person? Given a second chance, will you do the same thing? Together with Onozure Dania, we talked to  respondents and  bring you their responses below.]]></description>
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		<title>First time out: (10) For us, sex was just one of the games we played</title>
		<link>http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/09/29/first-time-out-10-for-us-sex-was-just-one-of-the-games-we-played/</link>
		<comments>http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/09/29/first-time-out-10-for-us-sex-was-just-one-of-the-games-we-played/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Sep 2009 23:29:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>alexsamade</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Human Angle]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Games]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sex]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.vanguardngr.com/?p=25955</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Those who want to have sex at this point just pick each other and go into hiding together to do it, while those who don’t, just hide and allow themselves to get caught]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>14</slash:comments>
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		<title>First time out: (9) 5yrs after he took my virginity, I’m still waiting</title>
		<link>http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/09/24/first-time-out-9-ive-years-after-he-took-my-virginity-i%e2%80%99m-still-waiting/</link>
		<comments>http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/09/24/first-time-out-9-ive-years-after-he-took-my-virginity-i%e2%80%99m-still-waiting/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Sep 2009 19:42:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>alexsamade</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Human Angle]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[virginity]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.vanguardngr.com/?p=25282</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[He said he was very happy that he was the first man with me and wanted me to promise that he will be the only man that will be that intimate with me; he said he was very surprised to see a girl living in Lagos who could stay a virgin for that long, that he has not met a single virgin since he began dating, and neither had most of his friends ]]></description>
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		<title>First time out: (8) My experience cost me my self-esteem</title>
		<link>http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/09/17/first-time-out-8-my-experience-cost-me-my-self-esteem/</link>
		<comments>http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/09/17/first-time-out-8-my-experience-cost-me-my-self-esteem/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Sep 2009 23:19:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>eribake</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Human Angle]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sex]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.vanguardngr.com/?p=23519</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[We both know this can’t go on for ever, eventually, we have to separate and pick our own partners so that the world will not discover us. Well, I think some close friends do suspect us, but no one has concrete evidenceagainst us. So, for now, we are just fine together.]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>14</slash:comments>
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		<title>First time out: (7) My sister was my first sex partner!</title>
		<link>http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/09/15/first-time-out-7-my-sister-was-my-first-sex-partner/</link>
		<comments>http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/09/15/first-time-out-7-my-sister-was-my-first-sex-partner/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Sep 2009 23:35:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>alexsamade</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Human Angle]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sister]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.vanguardngr.com/?p=22966</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[The first time I had sex was with my sister. I was 16 and she was 12. We were young then and I was in love with her. I am still and she loves me too since we still do it together once a while.]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>72</slash:comments>
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		<title>First time out: (6) : At 28, had sex only four times</title>
		<link>http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/09/10/first-time-out-6-at-28-had-sex-only-four-times/</link>
		<comments>http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/09/10/first-time-out-6-at-28-had-sex-only-four-times/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2009 23:00:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>alexsamade</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Human Angle]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sex]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.vanguardngr.com/?p=21890</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Many men have been forced to settle for women they did not love just because the women got pregnant for them and refused to have the pregnancies terminated, very few men have the courage to tell a woman to go to hell once she says she is carrying their child]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>15</slash:comments>
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		<title>First time out: (5) Sex, to me, is not worth the trouble</title>
		<link>http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/09/08/first-time-out-5-sex-to-me-is-not-worth-the-trouble/</link>
		<comments>http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/09/08/first-time-out-5-sex-to-me-is-not-worth-the-trouble/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Sep 2009 23:19:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>alexsamade</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Human Angle]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sex]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.vanguardngr.com/?p=21420</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I was 27 years old when I first had sex, and believe me, it was due to pressure from the lady I was dating. Sex to me is not worth all the noise and trouble that comes with it. It is not as if I do not get sexually aroused or that I am impotent.]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>26</slash:comments>
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		<title>First time out: (4)</title>
		<link>http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/09/03/first-time-out-4/</link>
		<comments>http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/09/03/first-time-out-4/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Sep 2009 23:07:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>alexsamade</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Human Angle]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sex]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.vanguardngr.com/?p=19774</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Nnamdi, (48), Artiste, contracted STD on his first time out. But was he deterred? Find out below as he tells his story:  
My first experience as a young man was with a prostitute. Though at the time, I didn’t know that she was one. As a young chap, I was a trouble shooting, talkative and daring guy in thick lens glasses. I had a lot of wild friends too and was very smooth with the ladies.]]></description>
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		<title>First time out: (3)</title>
		<link>http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/09/01/first-time-out-3/</link>
		<comments>http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/09/01/first-time-out-3/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Aug 2009 23:05:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>alexsamade</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Human Angle]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[bed sheets]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[virgin]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.vanguardngr.com/?p=19768</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[It was when he got up for the next guy to take his turn that they discovered the bed was covered in blood! Shit! One of them screamed. She is a virgin, cried another; as if they were rehearsing a script. Frantically, they pulled me up and one of them threw me a towel while another went about packing the bed sheets from the bed.]]></description>
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		<title>First time out: (2) My dad’s secretary taught me real sex</title>
		<link>http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/08/27/first-time-out-2-my-dad%e2%80%99s-secretary-taught-me-real-sex/</link>
		<comments>http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/08/27/first-time-out-2-my-dad%e2%80%99s-secretary-taught-me-real-sex/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Aug 2009 23:11:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>alexsamade</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Human Angle]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sex]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.vanguardngr.com/?p=18333</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[As I grew up, I just wanted to discover what made them different from guys. Whenever I see a lady, I was always fascinated by that “thing” growing in front of her chest, why she swayed her hips and bum in a particular manner, and why her things were different from the other girl’s things. You know, I just wanted to experiment with them and I enjoyed it.]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>13</slash:comments>
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		<title>First time out</title>
		<link>http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/08/25/first-time-out/</link>
		<comments>http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/08/25/first-time-out/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Aug 2009 23:00:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>alexsamade</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Human Angle]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[lovers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sex]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.vanguardngr.com/?p=18162</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever tried to think back, capture the first time you had sex? What was it like? For different people, it is different strokes.]]></description>
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		<title>Women were made to  please men (2)</title>
		<link>http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/07/21/women-were-made-to-please-men-2/</link>
		<comments>http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/07/21/women-were-made-to-please-men-2/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2009 15:02:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>alexsamade</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Human Angle]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.vanguardngr.com/?p=11139</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I have always believed that parents were the instigators of this sexism, but then found myself being completely wrong, which is something that I hate to be, so you can imagine how difficult it is for me to admit.]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>7</slash:comments>
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		<title>Are women truly their own worst enemies?</title>
		<link>http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/07/16/are-women-truly-their-own-worst-enemies/</link>
		<comments>http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/07/16/are-women-truly-their-own-worst-enemies/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2009 23:00:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>alexsamade</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Human Angle]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Obama]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[racism]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[women]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.vanguardngr.com/?p=10126</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Women really need to understand that there will be no women’s power in this world until women get over trying to outdo one another in spite. In the meantime, men can sit back and relax because their power is not going anywhere. I have had issues dealing with other females from the time I was a kid.]]></description>
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		<title>Safe sex: who is responsible (5)</title>
		<link>http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/07/14/safe-sex-who-is-responsible-5/</link>
		<comments>http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/07/14/safe-sex-who-is-responsible-5/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jul 2009 23:00:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>alexsamade</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Human Angle]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[husband]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[wife]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.vanguardngr.com/?p=9635</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Tell yourselves the truth. Does a friend who sleeps with her friend’s husband not know that the same man will sleep with his wife later? Or does a sister who is in an affair with her sister’s husband not know that he sleeps with his wife? Any man who takes a woman to bed, will surely take another, and another. So, why is she doing it?]]></description>
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		<title>Safe sex: who is responsible (4)</title>
		<link>http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/07/09/safe-sex-who-is-responsible-4/</link>
		<comments>http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/07/09/safe-sex-who-is-responsible-4/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Jul 2009 23:00:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>alexsamade</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Human Angle]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sexually]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.vanguardngr.com/?p=8310</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[As a girl or woman in our kind of society, you hardly can muster that will power to utilize that option. With the present state of economy, there is very little most women can do.]]></description>
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		<title>Safe sex: who is responsible (3)</title>
		<link>http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/07/07/safe-sex-who-is-responsible-3/</link>
		<comments>http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/07/07/safe-sex-who-is-responsible-3/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Jul 2009 23:00:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>alexsamade</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Human Angle]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Add new tag]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[condoms]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[This will allow Senator Anyanwu to concentrate on other effective responsive health laws especially around gender inequity and inequality which fuels the epidemic.       
Ikenna Obianwa works with Terrence Higgins Trust UK]]></description>
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		<title>Safe sex: who is responsible (2)</title>
		<link>http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/07/02/safe-sex-who-is-responsible-2/</link>
		<comments>http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/07/02/safe-sex-who-is-responsible-2/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 23:00:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>alexsamade</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Human Angle]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[The question is: would the church offer treatment or care in any form to the couple if the test comes out positive? or would the church ask for other STI’s other than HIV as a measure to protect the proposed bride from a wayward husband?]]></description>
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