You recently advised a 20-year-old man that when he’s with a woman he cares for, he shouldn’t hesitate if they both wanted to know each other sexually; that making love was the most natural thing in the world. I agree with you that it is – with love and commitment in marriage.

I used to have a good relationship with my elders sister until my marriage of only two years broke up and I became very depressed. At first my sister was supportive but she later became irritated with me while her husband understands what I have been going through.

I have been married for 14 years, have three children and I’m a trained masseur. I used to work in a gym but I have since set up my business doing massages at private homes. My husband is happy with this as my working is flexible and I make lots more money than the salary I was earning.

My baby is less than a year old and since I had her, I’d done loads of pelvic-floor exercises. It seems as if they’re not working because when I make love with my husband, I can feel my vagina is wide opened. He confirmed I’m not as tight as I used to but he doesn’t mind because he loves me.

I have an old friend who meddles in my financial affairs. We’d been together since our secondary school day and are now in our 40s we’re both divorced but the similarity endja there.

With all these relationship issues you keep addressing in your column, one gets the impression that after a few years, and with the average couple getting used to each other’s bodies, romance could fly out of the window. Yet there are couples who’ve sustained the love in their relationships for decades. How do they do it? I’m not married yet, but when I do, I pray that it would last the distance.

A two-man robbery gang that operates on a motorcycle, has met its waterloo, after one of its suspected members was shot dead yesterday, during a gun battle with a team of policemen attached to Trade fair division.

My 28-year-old daughter has been with her boyfriend on and off for six years. He left her for another girl when she got pregnant, and then came back when she had a son.

I’m just over 30 and have a high sex drive. I want it every day if I could get it, but my wife is happy with two or three rimes a week. Once in a while, she humours me by letting me have more but I always have the feelings she does it for peace. A few weeks back, her father had a stroke. He’s lived alone since he lost his wife three years ago and my wife had to go to the family house every evening from work. By the time she came back home, sex was the last thing in her mind.

I recently found out that my girlfriend of over a year was cheating on me. You can imagine how I felt when she told me that she had cheated because she wanted to find out what it was like to have sex with a man who is well stacked.