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His porn magazines put me off

Dear Bunmi,

My boyfriend of six months has suddenly started showing interest in pom magazines, which he buys at secondhand bend-down stalls at bus-stops. He’s also into revolting pornography films and has lost interest in me. He is 27 and I’m 20 and it’s making argue all the time. I’ve refused to watch his stupid movie. What should I do?

Agbeke, by e-mail.

Dear Agbeke,

It’s obvious that your boyfriend has aUo ed himself to be sucked into a sexual fantasy world in which he finds explicit and powerful images of impossible gratification exciting. As time goes on, he’ll find out that for him to sustain his fantasy and the thrills it brings, he will continue to push away reality and his flesh-and-blood girlfriend – no matter how attractive she may be to him.

Your wants and those of your boyfriend have obviously changed in a dramatic way. A woman needs to feel loved and valued in the eyes of her lover. This man has made his choice by witching his allegiance to obscene dreams. You’re wen rid of him.


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