Comments on: First time out: (6) : At 28, had sex only four times http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/09/10/first-time-out-6-at-28-had-sex-only-four-times/ Latest news from Nigeria, business, politics, entertainment, lifestyle, fashion, health, technology Fri, 12 Mar 2010 08:49:46 +0100 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 By: clemzo http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/09/10/first-time-out-6-at-28-had-sex-only-four-times/comment-page-2/#comment-52423 clemzo Sat, 12 Sep 2009 10:27:28 +0000 http://www.vanguardngr.com/?p=21890#comment-52423 staying focused on what is important should be the order of the day and not messing around. Most people end up in wrong places in the name of marriage bcos of what they thought was right i.e flirting around. Zipping up is worth it. staying focused on what is important should be the order of the day and not messing around. Most people end up in wrong places in the name of marriage bcos of what they thought was right i.e flirting around. Zipping up is worth it.

]]> By: Emma http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/09/10/first-time-out-6-at-28-had-sex-only-four-times/comment-page-2/#comment-51750 Emma Fri, 11 Sep 2009 09:19:49 +0000 http://www.vanguardngr.com/?p=21890#comment-51750 have no experience but all comment are interesting.. have learnt lessons for my life, it a big presure that we need to fight. have no experience but all comment are interesting.. have learnt lessons for my life, it a big presure that we need to fight.

]]> By: seyi http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/09/10/first-time-out-6-at-28-had-sex-only-four-times/comment-page-2/#comment-51638 seyi Fri, 11 Sep 2009 07:32:03 +0000 http://www.vanguardngr.com/?p=21890#comment-51638 Sex was one issue I avoided until late 2008 when I was in my 27th year and working as a medical representative in a pharmaceutical firm. through out my years in the university i was able to stare clear of this because i maintained a triangular way of life- classroom, church and hostel; even being a corper in Akwa Ibom I was able to sail through, all thanks to last minutes escapes. but this was not supposed to be so when my girl friend(of 5yrs old relationship) tactically convinced me into this. we were both first timer and it was all fumbling and wombling; at least we broke the silent and messed up the clothes. the funniest of the memory still remain the tension i felt when she cried out with pains and still with tiers wanting to go on. she is still my girl now and i pray we end up on the alter. but sex has been suspended till d right time for now Sex was one issue I avoided until late 2008 when I was in my 27th year and working as a medical representative in a pharmaceutical firm. through out my years in the university i was able to stare clear of this because i maintained a triangular way of life- classroom, church and hostel; even being a corper in Akwa Ibom I was able to sail through, all thanks to last minutes escapes. but this was not supposed to be so when my girl friend(of 5yrs old relationship) tactically convinced me into this.
we were both first timer and it was all fumbling and wombling; at least we broke the silent and messed up the clothes.
the funniest of the memory still remain the tension i felt when she cried out with pains and still with tiers wanting to go on. she is still my girl now and i pray we end up on the alter. but sex has been suspended till d right time for now

]]> By: KAY - CALGARY http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/09/10/first-time-out-6-at-28-had-sex-only-four-times/comment-page-2/#comment-51419 KAY - CALGARY Thu, 10 Sep 2009 20:43:33 +0000 http://www.vanguardngr.com/?p=21890#comment-51419 Ola, for your sake and future hapiness, please see to it that you cut off every phone conversation with this adulterous woman. Can a man take fire in his bossom and not be burnt. The lips of a strange (adulterous) woman is as sweet as a honey comb. Beware! Ola, for your sake and future hapiness, please see to it that you cut off every phone conversation with this adulterous woman. Can a man take fire in his bossom and not be burnt. The lips of a strange (adulterous) woman is as sweet as a honey comb. Beware!

]]> By: Mjk http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/09/10/first-time-out-6-at-28-had-sex-only-four-times/comment-page-2/#comment-51381 Mjk Thu, 10 Sep 2009 18:55:21 +0000 http://www.vanguardngr.com/?p=21890#comment-51381 We can win this war against premarital sex if we realy try and hv personal conviction & determination.I am abstaining, many others out there are abstaining, you can abstain, remember, IT BEGINS WITH YOU We can win this war against premarital sex if we realy try and hv personal conviction & determination.I am abstaining, many others out there are abstaining, you can abstain, remember, IT BEGINS WITH YOU

]]> By: Paul Terver http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/09/10/first-time-out-6-at-28-had-sex-only-four-times/comment-page-1/#comment-51127 Paul Terver Thu, 10 Sep 2009 12:36:45 +0000 http://www.vanguardngr.com/?p=21890#comment-51127 Actually, sex is something that have to do with our mind sets. Its not every body that like it as per say but they do it due to the fact that they are human. I personally do it because I derived pleasure in doing it. Beside if i'm with a lady and you don't like it, then our relationship can neer be strong to some extend. Actually, sex is something that have to do with our mind sets. Its not every body that like it as per say but they do it due to the fact that they are human. I personally do it because I derived pleasure in doing it. Beside if i’m with a lady and you don’t like it, then our relationship can neer be strong to some extend.

]]> By: G. BOLA http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/09/10/first-time-out-6-at-28-had-sex-only-four-times/comment-page-1/#comment-51077 G. BOLA Thu, 10 Sep 2009 11:23:08 +0000 http://www.vanguardngr.com/?p=21890#comment-51077 LET BYEGONE BE BYEGONE. LET BYEGONE BE BYEGONE.

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/09/10/first-time-out-6-at-28-had-sex-only-four-times/comment-page-1/#comment-51028 Anonymous Thu, 10 Sep 2009 10:30:20 +0000 http://www.vanguardngr.com/?p=21890#comment-51028 hello, i just wanted to commend E2, Ola and Cyril for their comments (admonitions), and also big ups to the editor of this article. What some of us dont know is that there are some people who learn from articles and comments like these. We learn and then dont have to make the mistakes others have made; because, i tell you, its difficult to abstain, it really is. But there are those who are abstaining from pre-marital sex and reading these article and comments has even made me more resolute in my commitment to abstain from pre-marital sexand any formof immorality. Thanks y'all !!!! hello, i just wanted to commend E2, Ola and Cyril for their comments (admonitions), and also big ups to the editor of this article. What some of us dont know is that there are some people who learn from articles and comments like these. We learn and then dont have to make the mistakes others have made; because, i tell you, its difficult to abstain, it really is. But there are those who are abstaining from pre-marital sex and reading these article and comments has even made me more resolute in my commitment to abstain from pre-marital sexand any formof immorality. Thanks y’all !!!!

]]> By: ENGR. AZUKA EMEASOBA http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/09/10/first-time-out-6-at-28-had-sex-only-four-times/comment-page-1/#comment-51022 ENGR. AZUKA EMEASOBA Thu, 10 Sep 2009 10:18:13 +0000 http://www.vanguardngr.com/?p=21890#comment-51022 Most things people do at their youthful ages cannot be used as a yard stick when they grow up. Most times,. that first time experience is not worth remembering and as it happened to me, it was a girl a little older than me that taught me what sex is all about just close to my university admission. In short, I was sexually harassed by a woman against my wish. Most things people do at their youthful ages cannot be used as a yard stick when they grow up. Most times,. that first time experience is not worth remembering and as it happened to me, it was a girl a little older than me that taught me what sex is all about just close to my university admission. In short, I was sexually harassed by a woman against my wish.

]]> By: iche http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/09/10/first-time-out-6-at-28-had-sex-only-four-times/comment-page-1/#comment-50989 iche Thu, 10 Sep 2009 09:55:30 +0000 http://www.vanguardngr.com/?p=21890#comment-50989 When I was a young man from the age of 15 to 20 I always feared women becuase of infection, and being carefull of unwanted pregancy plus mistakes on life partiner as a man and woman. Therefore I did not involved myself on prematured sex. When I was a young man from the age of 15 to 20 I always feared women
becuase of infection, and being carefull of unwanted pregancy plus mistakes
on life partiner as a man and woman. Therefore I did not involved myself on prematured sex.

]]> By: E2 http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/09/10/first-time-out-6-at-28-had-sex-only-four-times/comment-page-1/#comment-50929 E2 Thu, 10 Sep 2009 08:58:42 +0000 http://www.vanguardngr.com/?p=21890#comment-50929 Ayodele ventured into an area that many either do not know or choose to overlook at their own peril. He has an idea of it and has warned rightly. The truth remains that sex was designed by God for marriage only, and as such had built-in certain things that the ordinary eyes can not see. When God said concerning marriage that "the two shall become one", there is an unlying, un-escapable activation of a "soul-tie" in all sexual intercourse and this is a kind of an expressway into one another life - so much that one can use it to his or her advantage. However, a lot of women (even men), mostly women with supernatural powers from whatever source(s), use it to access the life of the men that have had sex with them (at one time or the other) at will. If the motive of this access is negetive, then the result is left to each person's imagination.Please always bear this truth in mind, that it is the spiritual realm that controls the physical realm and as such, it takes wellness and progress in the spiritual to suceed and advance in the physical. There are solutions to this, but there is none as reliable and pragmatic as abstinence untill marriage. It puts one not only in tune with God, but keep the spirit part of man safe and sound for greater exploits (achievements). The other 'solution' is an interventionist in nature and that can be discussed still if the neeed arises. Ayodele ventured into an area that many either do not know or choose to overlook at their own peril. He has an idea of it and has warned rightly. The truth remains that sex was designed by God for marriage only, and as such had built-in certain things that the ordinary eyes can not see. When God said concerning marriage that “the two shall become one”, there is an unlying, un-escapable activation of a “soul-tie” in all sexual intercourse and this is a kind of an expressway into one another life – so much that one can use it to his or her advantage.

However, a lot of women (even men), mostly women with supernatural powers from whatever source(s), use it to access the life of the men that have had sex with them (at one time or the other) at will. If the motive of this access is negetive, then the result is left to each person’s imagination.Please always bear this truth in mind, that it is the spiritual realm that controls the physical realm and as such, it takes wellness and progress in the spiritual to suceed and advance in the physical.

There are solutions to this, but there is none as reliable and pragmatic as abstinence untill marriage. It puts one not only in tune with God, but keep the spirit part of man safe and sound for greater exploits (achievements). The other ’solution’ is an interventionist in nature and that can be discussed still if the neeed arises.

]]> By: Cyril http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/09/10/first-time-out-6-at-28-had-sex-only-four-times/comment-page-1/#comment-50830 Cyril Thu, 10 Sep 2009 06:59:09 +0000 http://www.vanguardngr.com/?p=21890#comment-50830 The truth about sex is that it exists for a purpose. It is meant for marriage, to bring the man and woman closer. It's not just for the purpose of pleasure but for them to share a special bond, and also to fulfil God's purpose of procreation and increase in the world. But our present human society has surpassed Sodom and Gomorrah that it seems immorality has been accepted as part of our everyday life. Even 12 year olds are now having sex and becoming fathers and mothers (see links below). What a shame on our society. http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/article2233878.ece http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1212318/Father-blames-social-services-12-year-old-daughters-pregnancy.html What most people don't know or want to deny is that what gives us the greatest physical pleasure is the most lethal thing that harms us spiritually (For those who are Christians: 1 Cor 6:18. I don't know what the holy Koran says about sex but I am sure there will be verses on it. Mabe a Muslim brother can help out in his comment). Apart from spiritual death, there are social consequences of sex, it leaves most people scarred and unhappy for a greater part of their lives. Let us try to make our society a place of true happiness and not let a few minutes of pleasure ruin our lives. This life is just a phase, a transit point; the real and true pleasurable life is elsewhere. Lets not miss out on it because of foolishness. Friendship between a boy and a girl is good when it is time but be careful about sex. Encourage one another in your relationship and refrain from it. Be shining examples to others. Don't follow the crowd, if you can't beat them, then don't join them. Be yourself! True sweetness is in marriage. The truth about sex is that it exists for a purpose. It is meant for marriage, to bring the man and woman closer. It’s not just for the purpose of pleasure but for them to share a special bond, and also to fulfil God’s purpose of procreation and increase in the world.

But our present human society has surpassed Sodom and Gomorrah that it seems immorality has been accepted as part of our everyday life. Even 12 year olds are now having sex and becoming fathers and mothers (see links below). What a shame on our society.

http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/article2233878.ece

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1212318/Father-blames-social-services-12-year-old-daughters-pregnancy.html

What most people don’t know or want to deny is that what gives us the greatest physical pleasure is the most lethal thing that harms us spiritually (For those who are Christians: 1 Cor 6:18. I don’t know what the holy Koran says about sex but I am sure there will be verses on it. Mabe a Muslim brother can help out in his comment). Apart from spiritual death, there are social consequences of sex, it leaves most people scarred and unhappy for a greater part of their lives.

Let us try to make our society a place of true happiness and not let a few minutes of pleasure ruin our lives. This life is just a phase, a transit point; the real and true pleasurable life is elsewhere. Lets not miss out on it because of foolishness. Friendship between a boy and a girl is good when it is time but be careful about sex. Encourage one another in your relationship and refrain from it. Be shining examples to others. Don’t follow the crowd, if you can’t beat them, then don’t join them. Be yourself! True sweetness is in marriage.

]]> By: ola http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/09/10/first-time-out-6-at-28-had-sex-only-four-times/comment-page-1/#comment-50812 ola Thu, 10 Sep 2009 06:18:16 +0000 http://www.vanguardngr.com/?p=21890#comment-50812 I'm 27 and for about five years from now,i havn't had sex. I thank God for keeping me clean. I have only had sex with a lady, though on several occassions. It started when I was a friend with a lady whom I never had intention of havng sex with. I had to withstand the pressures this lady put me on for about a year after which I succumbed to her demand. We were both virgins but she wanted to do it only with me despite that she could have done it with other guys.We had to try for about three times on three occassions before we finally unlock the lust, after which we kept doing it nearly fortnightly. It was a sad experience because i have always wanted to marry whoever i have sex with and I wouldn't have done it then if i could handle the pressure of a pretty lady and wouldn't want to do it again now until i'm married as i'm looking forward to sex with my wife,though i'm not married yet but have a fiance for a about 2years now and we are both religious. I was saved from unwanted pregnancy from this lady as I had to travel to the uk. She is married now but said she wouldn't mind us doing it again the last time we conversed over the phone. Ola (student) I’m 27 and for about five years from now,i havn’t had sex. I thank God for keeping me clean. I have only had sex with a lady, though on several occassions. It started when I was a friend with a lady whom I never had intention of havng sex with. I had to withstand the pressures this lady put me on for about a year after which I succumbed to her demand. We were both virgins but she wanted to do it only with me despite that she could have done it with other guys.We had to try for about three times on three occassions before we finally unlock the lust, after which we kept doing it nearly fortnightly. It was a sad experience because i have always wanted to marry whoever i have sex with and I wouldn’t have done it then if i could handle the pressure of a pretty lady and wouldn’t want to do it again now until i’m married as i’m looking forward to sex with my wife,though i’m not married yet but have a fiance for a about 2years now and we are both religious. I was saved from unwanted pregnancy from this lady as I had to travel to the uk. She is married now but said she wouldn’t mind us doing it again the last time we conversed over the phone.
Ola (student)

]]> By: Bola Thomson http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/09/10/first-time-out-6-at-28-had-sex-only-four-times/comment-page-1/#comment-50707 Bola Thomson Thu, 10 Sep 2009 00:32:31 +0000 http://www.vanguardngr.com/?p=21890#comment-50707 Whichever way you had, you ve had already and there is no going back. Here in Africa, all men should careful and have the will power to control their sexual urge at each time. Not every beautiful woman that looks sexy are real beings. Whichever way you had, you ve had already and there is no going back. Here in Africa, all men should careful and have the will power to control their sexual urge at each time. Not every beautiful woman that looks sexy are real beings.

]]> By: Isheke mike efe http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/09/10/first-time-out-6-at-28-had-sex-only-four-times/comment-page-1/#comment-50682 Isheke mike efe Wed, 09 Sep 2009 23:34:51 +0000 http://www.vanguardngr.com/?p=21890#comment-50682 The first time i had it was wit a prostitute,but was feared so i decided 2 take anti-infected drugs n also masturbate myself 2 see if it is stil working.ain't funny,right? The first time i had it was wit a prostitute,but was feared so i decided 2 take anti-infected drugs n also masturbate myself 2 see if it is stil working.ain’t funny,right?

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