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	<title>Comments on: Safe sex: who is responsible</title>
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		<title>By: charles</title>
		<link>http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/06/30/safe-sex-who-is-responsible/comment-page-1/#comment-15420</link>
		<dc:creator>charles</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Jul 2009 15:54:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Bible is against sex outside marriage so be careful so that you will live.....</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bible is against sex outside marriage so be careful so that you will live&#8230;..</p>
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		<title>By: Sorinola akinlolu</title>
		<link>http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/06/30/safe-sex-who-is-responsible/comment-page-1/#comment-12209</link>
		<dc:creator>Sorinola akinlolu</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2009 05:10:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sly,how old are you?because this your question is more of rhetorical.
Go to some parts of ikeja by 8 pm,am sure somebody should be waiting to advice you</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sly,how old are you?because this your question is more of rhetorical.<br />
Go to some parts of ikeja by 8 pm,am sure somebody should be waiting to advice you</p>
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		<title>By: salawu</title>
		<link>http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/06/30/safe-sex-who-is-responsible/comment-page-1/#comment-8905</link>
		<dc:creator>salawu</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 19:32:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>How old are you that you are still talking about lover instead of talking about wife. Go and get married, help our sisters who are wandering the street because pple like you are not ready to be responsible. Get married God will definitely provide for you what to eat and you will live in peace, safe life and stop committing adultery. Advice to all youths both girls and boys go find your level and marry don&#039;t ever have sex before married it is a sin. God should guide us all, Ameeen</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How old are you that you are still talking about lover instead of talking about wife. Go and get married, help our sisters who are wandering the street because pple like you are not ready to be responsible. Get married God will definitely provide for you what to eat and you will live in peace, safe life and stop committing adultery. Advice to all youths both girls and boys go find your level and marry don&#8217;t ever have sex before married it is a sin. God should guide us all, Ameeen</p>
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		<title>By: pat</title>
		<link>http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/06/30/safe-sex-who-is-responsible/comment-page-1/#comment-8866</link>
		<dc:creator>pat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 17:29:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sly or what? If you don&#039;t have a lover, I advice you to use your hand, you know what i mean eg masterpating.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sly or what? If you don&#8217;t have a lover, I advice you to use your hand, you know what i mean eg masterpating.</p>
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		<title>By: Pastor kay</title>
		<link>http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/06/30/safe-sex-who-is-responsible/comment-page-1/#comment-8810</link>
		<dc:creator>Pastor kay</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 15:20:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Life demands caution!married people shld be happy and content with their partner.lets fight against premarital sex,sex outside marriage and any act dt can destroy our home.be open to ur partner</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Life demands caution!married people shld be happy and content with their partner.lets fight against premarital sex,sex outside marriage and any act dt can destroy our home.be open to ur partner</p>
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		<title>By: Endy Okpetu a.k.a Awake</title>
		<link>http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/06/30/safe-sex-who-is-responsible/comment-page-1/#comment-8717</link>
		<dc:creator>Endy Okpetu a.k.a Awake</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 12:45:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sly, if you feel so urged to have sex, there are a million girls out there in the streets that are looking for men to hook up with. If you are not man enough to approach any, with your money go to any hotel close to you. If you think you do not have enough money to pay for hotel accomodation, just sample the little money you have on the street, you will seven of them running after you. The Bible even confirm that prophecy. Good luck to you.
							P.S. - Sorry, forgot to tell you great post!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sly, if you feel so urged to have sex, there are a million girls out there in the streets that are looking for men to hook up with. If you are not man enough to approach any, with your money go to any hotel close to you. If you think you do not have enough money to pay for hotel accomodation, just sample the little money you have on the street, you will seven of them running after you. The Bible even confirm that prophecy. Good luck to you.<br />
							P.S. &#8211; Sorry, forgot to tell you great post!</p>
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		<title>By: Endy Okpetu a.k.a Awake</title>
		<link>http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/06/30/safe-sex-who-is-responsible/comment-page-1/#comment-8700</link>
		<dc:creator>Endy Okpetu a.k.a Awake</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 12:07:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sly, if you feel so urged to have sex, there are a million girls out there in the streets that are looking for men to hook up with. If you are not man enough to approach any, with your money go to any hotel close to you. If you think you do not have enough money to pay for hotel accomodation, just sample the little money you have on the street, you will seven of them running after you. The Bible even confirm that prophecy. Good luck to you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sly, if you feel so urged to have sex, there are a million girls out there in the streets that are looking for men to hook up with. If you are not man enough to approach any, with your money go to any hotel close to you. If you think you do not have enough money to pay for hotel accomodation, just sample the little money you have on the street, you will seven of them running after you. The Bible even confirm that prophecy. Good luck to you.</p>
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		<title>By: Phil</title>
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		<dc:creator>Phil</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 10:10:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree with Patrick, that looking good and taking care of onesself does not end after marriage, looking good continues even after marriage, but i want to ask Patrick, does taking care of onesself even after marriage applies to women alone, does it not also apply to the men folk as well? Our women should be given a break for once, do you know what women go through to loose weight after child birth, pregnancy fat and all that, my brother is not all that easy for our women most of the time but i must commend our women, most of them are really trying to look good even after marriage and child birth. 

I know also that our men would give any kind of excuse just to engage themselves in extra-marital affairs, i also want to state here that there is no race of any kind at all, whether one is married or not, having a relationship with somebody is a matter of a personal decision between individuals, there is no race at all is either you want the relationship to work or not period, i do not have to kill myself to gain somebody&#039;s approval of me is either we are in it together or we are not, then we both move on to our separate ways.

Please do not misunderstand me here, all i am trying to say is that the man could take the lead in speaking up when he notice that they are not been fulfil sexually, he must not wait for the woman to say that first.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with Patrick, that looking good and taking care of onesself does not end after marriage, looking good continues even after marriage, but i want to ask Patrick, does taking care of onesself even after marriage applies to women alone, does it not also apply to the men folk as well? Our women should be given a break for once, do you know what women go through to loose weight after child birth, pregnancy fat and all that, my brother is not all that easy for our women most of the time but i must commend our women, most of them are really trying to look good even after marriage and child birth. </p>
<p>I know also that our men would give any kind of excuse just to engage themselves in extra-marital affairs, i also want to state here that there is no race of any kind at all, whether one is married or not, having a relationship with somebody is a matter of a personal decision between individuals, there is no race at all is either you want the relationship to work or not period, i do not have to kill myself to gain somebody&#8217;s approval of me is either we are in it together or we are not, then we both move on to our separate ways.</p>
<p>Please do not misunderstand me here, all i am trying to say is that the man could take the lead in speaking up when he notice that they are not been fulfil sexually, he must not wait for the woman to say that first.</p>
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		<title>By: Patrick N</title>
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		<dc:creator>Patrick N</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 09:18:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Yetunde,
I agree with one of the contributors who said that nigerian women misplace their complaints.Most of them have refused to accept that they must come open with their feelings.If you have a partner,let him know your sexual orientation, including what satisfies you in bed and out of bed.This issue of  false modesty is getting me irritated.Times have changed and if couples cant be frank with each other ,then I wonder what they are doing together.The man and woman in any relation should be able to listen to what each has to say and see if it is workable for both.We should leave this phsycological, and cultural trapings that becloud reasoning.Times have changed.By the way our women should stop this habit of not bothering to take care of their looks after marriage and child birth.They believe that the race ends with securing a husband therefore, once that is done no need to work anymore on their appearance.Please ladies the competition is still on.Watch your weight even after child bearing.Trust me some  unmarried ladies out there prefer married men so if you think you are secure, then think again.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Yetunde,<br />
I agree with one of the contributors who said that nigerian women misplace their complaints.Most of them have refused to accept that they must come open with their feelings.If you have a partner,let him know your sexual orientation, including what satisfies you in bed and out of bed.This issue of  false modesty is getting me irritated.Times have changed and if couples cant be frank with each other ,then I wonder what they are doing together.The man and woman in any relation should be able to listen to what each has to say and see if it is workable for both.We should leave this phsycological, and cultural trapings that becloud reasoning.Times have changed.By the way our women should stop this habit of not bothering to take care of their looks after marriage and child birth.They believe that the race ends with securing a husband therefore, once that is done no need to work anymore on their appearance.Please ladies the competition is still on.Watch your weight even after child bearing.Trust me some  unmarried ladies out there prefer married men so if you think you are secure, then think again.</p>
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		<title>By: Sly</title>
		<link>http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/06/30/safe-sex-who-is-responsible/comment-page-1/#comment-8342</link>
		<dc:creator>Sly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Jun 2009 21:44:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>4 now i dnt ve a lover n i alwys ve d urge 2 mak sex.wat do u advice?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>4 now i dnt ve a lover n i alwys ve d urge 2 mak sex.wat do u advice?</p>
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